Here comes April, coaxing summer just a little bit closer.
I remember reading a quote from artist Diego Rivera, about artist and wife Frida Kahlo, (and I paraphrase), "Frida's imperfections only amplify her beauty." On that theme, a client shared a Goya quote with me this morning, along the lines of, "That which is ugly, can be beautiful. That which is pretty, never."
In My line of work, I am many times asked to see things from a different angle or perspective. Clients come to Me yearning to give voice to incredible urges they've buried deep within them, far from prying eyes of those who might disapprove. The tall muscular contractor working in Iraq, considered a stud by many women... likes to call Me with his bunny ears and red satin panties on, to dance for me on webcam. Or the wealthy CEO swimming in tons of money, who has explosive orgasms while we talk, exploiting the fact that he, indeed, has the smallest penis this side of the Mississippi.
I have a new boy who might come across to many as normal. He's employed, has a girlfriend, yet for some reason, gets incredibly turned on thinking about worshipping old women's feet. The crone, the sage, the wise woman of the tribe, with her bunions, calluses and cracked skin. Yes, this is what drives him to reaching for Me.
We choose lovers, partners for many reasons. Chemistry, intellect, their nurturing side. Perhaps a bit of stability and a desire for commitment. And we sometimes lay to rest other parts of our person, in order to accommodate these many other things. In the beginning of My work as Mistress, I struggled a bit with this. If a man reaches for Me, to share his erotic kink, while his wife is none the wiser, am I participating in some kind of emotional affair?
It took me a few months of pondering this conundrum to come to the conclusion that fits for me. What I've found over time is that when a man reaches for Me, to discuss a secret part of him that is rarely exposed to any other, it seems to keep solid the commitments he's made to his partner or wife. More often than not, they want to remain faithful to their love, yet need the pressure valve that a session with Me can provide. Someone nonjudgmental, who actually embraces and thrives in their dirty little secret.
And yes I have boundaries of what I will and won't discuss. And any commitments My clients have made are theirs to sort through. Just know there's a thinking woman on the other end of the phone. I take little parts of each of My slaves with Me, long after the session ends.
